Domestic violence shatters lives Published Oct. 4, 2007 By Deborah Marie Gibson Thunderbolt Staff Writer LUKE AIR FORCE BASE, Ariz. - -- During the month of October, organizations and individuals are focusing on domestic violence awareness and prevention; and Luke is no exception. An information booth is at the base exchange today to increase awareness of the impact of domestic violence. In addition, until Tuesday, Silent Witness displays depicting Arizona's domestic violence fatalities are at Building 1150, 3rd floor atrium; the base hospital near the pharmacy and dental clinic; and at the Silver Wings Community Center lobby. Also, a teen dating violence workshop will be offered at 6 p.m. Oct. 17 at the youth center; and a relationship enhancement class on couples' communication begins at 8:30 a.m. Oct. 26 at the Base Chapel. "In the Luke community, we can help deter domestic violence by increasing awareness and educating members how to maintain healthy family relationships," said Frank Pavone, 56th Medical Group Family Advocacy outreach manger. "During stressful times such as deployment or having a baby, family dynamics are challenged. It's important to understand there are healthy ways to communicate and manage conflict." The first step to ending violence within the home is recognizing abusive behaviors. Domestic violence is not always physical -- it can entail verbal aggression or emotional neglect. The American Medical Association defines domestic violence as repeated physical violence, psychological abuse, sexual assault, social isolation and intimidation. Other behaviors that indicate abuse are jealousy, controlling actions, pushing for a fast commitment, unrealistic expectations, isolation and blaming others for problems, feelings or actions. Such behaviors can have devastating effects on the entire family, and especially children. The Centers for Disease Control and Preven tion indicate that children who experience abuse are at risk for adverse adult behaviors to include smoking, alcoholism, drug abuse, eating disorders, severe obesity, depression, suicide, sexual promiscuity and certain chronic diseases. In addition, children who witness domestic violence are more likely to pick abusive partners as adults. If domestic violence is happening, it's important to seek help, to end the cycle. "Unhealthy patterns in relationships don't have to be repeated," said Mr. Pavone. Individuals who are interested in learning effective techniques to control anger and manage conflict should participate in the services and classes offered by Family Advocacy or Like Skills. Seeking help is never a sign of weakness, but instead a sign of strength." For more information on domestic violence or to seek help, call (623) 856-3417.